Thursday, January 17, 2008
10 year itch?
I know there's the so called 7 year itch, but have you ever heard of a 10 year itch? Well, that's what Fernando and I are going through right now. in 7 days it will be our 10th year together and we are really going through some tough times. It seems to be the same as the so called "7 year itch" but we are going through it now. It sucks. We argue about the most stupid things and we no longer have that trust and friendship it seems. Why? What happened? I can't pin point it, but it's bad. I really want to work on our relationship, but it's hard. We have our good moments but it seems as if we are just tired! I know I think he is to blame, but we both need to make an improvement if we want to continue. Hopefully it's just temporary but I want this to stop already! i hate arguing over stupid things and big things, I just don't want to deal with this anymore. I wanted to plan a get away for us, but then again... I no longer know what to do.... Hopefully we can get through this!
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You'll get through it. Who's the one that told me " When there's a will there's a way?" If you truly love him then you'll get past it. It's only temporary. But just make sure and ask yourself if you are doing this and staying with him for you. Not because you feel obligated to. I'm pretty sure you love him though. You'll pull through.
i hope you can find a way to make it work.. relationships are hard work.. remember that.. it's work. and you and i both know that work isn't always fun! :)
we go through this too sometimes...and it usually takes a serious date night or even a long weekend away and that normally helps. hopefully yall work it out soon. fighting sucks
Thank you!!! Things do seem to get better!
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