Friday, October 19, 2007
Problems
I've always asked myself why I let small issues became big, as far as Fernando goes. I mean, we can argue about the smallest things and they became big... why? Well, because neither of us give in and it becomes a battle... That's pretty sad. Then, when we do get better, I still feel like I can't let it go because it really didn't get resolved... I don't know why I'm this way, I wish I didn't let things bother me. Although I'm pretty mellow about things, I'm calm and try to talk about things, Fer is not... he tries to not talk about any issues and he keeps them to himself so by the time I FORCE him to talk, it's bad. Just wished relationships were easier!!!!!
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I know your probably thinking who am I to give any advice on relationships but I do read magazines all the time. So, from what I've learned, and kinda know know from experiance from my parents, I think you should just explain to Fer that it bothers you that he dosent take problems seriosly and that you would just like to talk about and try to solve problems so you two can learn from mistakes. If he's still stubborn about it then see if you can consider going to a guidence counsler together and see if that can help.
Thank you sweetie!
i totally think that if boyfriend wasn't as mellow and resolving like he is, our relationship would be BAD. he fights fair. he fights calmly. and his calmness, keeps me calm. i credit all of our goodness in "fights" to his attitude about them. lol
i wish they were easier too. matt thinks he's ALWAYS right and even though i know i'm right, i still tell him fine, youre right and drop it. id rather avoid the rest of the argument than continue to argue w/o backing down. it sucks but sometimes its worth it for peace adn quiet!
ok look i am not wana be ghetto or ghetto. n i am tring to say sorry to you but you just hate me!sorry for what i did in the past i really am
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